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DEAR ABBY: My husband, a middle-aged minister, can rarely perform in the bedroom without wearing women's lingerie. I have put up with it because he seems to need it.
Lately he has begun wearing a bra around the house every day. He tries to hide it by wearing a heavy shirt or coat, but I can feel it when I hug him before leaving for work. I suspect he's even worn it to church. What would the parishioners think if they knew their preacher was delivering his sermon while wearing a bra?
It's starting to affect our marriage. He rarely speaks to me lately, and when he does, it's usually in monosyllables. I know he's not gay. Until now, our marriage has been a happy one.
I know many men have this problem. Maybe it shouldn't bother me so much, but it does. I don't know who to talk to. Everybody else takes their problems to their minister, but my husband IS one. If I go to his superiors, I'm afraid I'll get him into trouble, which I don't want to do.
Why do men wear women's clothes? Is it wrong? I appreciate any insight you can give me. -- NEEDS TO KNOW IN THE SOUTHWEST
DEAR NEEDS: Men wear women's clothes for a variety of reasons. For some it's a sexual fetish; others do it because they say it calms them and relieves stress. It isn't "wrong," but it is different. Some wives go along with it and help their husbands to cross-dress. Others have a difficult time adjusting to it.
This is not something that should be discussed with your husband's superiors. More important than talking to anybody right now is for you to learn all you can about transvestism and cross-dressing.
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How about we fucking call the police and start asking the altar boys if this faggot has ever molested them? Jesus H christ you would think people have a shred bit more common sense than this. What the hell is wrong with the world where you cannot see the problem with this???? IT GODAMNED DOESNT TAKE A GENIUS TO FIGURE OUT WHERE THIS ONE GOES NEXT?!!
All i have to say is Oh.. my ... fucking... god....
Thankfully its not NEEDS TO KNOW IN MINNEAPOLIS i guess. "What possibly could be the problem with a male wearing womans clothing?" You know people like to throw this one around too and constantly banter on and on about how its a lifestyle choice and there is nothing wrong with it. The bitch wearing the dress has a dick. To me there is something inherntly wrong with that. I guesse im the one who is wrong for noticing the obvious. It may be that it takes a literary genius of the greatest proportions to write a rant about how its ok to be a he-she and how they dont need to pay attenting to the "mocking" by the "racists idiot stupid red necks" so they can get on their little superiority trip and use thier "intelligence" as the defining factor of that argument. Lets just forget that issue about the schlong dangeling out from under the mini skirt.
Yeah there exaclty is what i mean by educated idiots. You can have 200,000 years of college and through some fluke of creation happen to miss the little fact that a woman is not supposed to have a dick.
Wtf is wrong with the world?
Lately he has begun wearing a bra around the house every day. He tries to hide it by wearing a heavy shirt or coat, but I can feel it when I hug him before leaving for work. I suspect he's even worn it to church. What would the parishioners think if they knew their preacher was delivering his sermon while wearing a bra?
It's starting to affect our marriage. He rarely speaks to me lately, and when he does, it's usually in monosyllables. I know he's not gay. Until now, our marriage has been a happy one.
I know many men have this problem. Maybe it shouldn't bother me so much, but it does. I don't know who to talk to. Everybody else takes their problems to their minister, but my husband IS one. If I go to his superiors, I'm afraid I'll get him into trouble, which I don't want to do.
Why do men wear women's clothes? Is it wrong? I appreciate any insight you can give me. -- NEEDS TO KNOW IN THE SOUTHWEST
DEAR NEEDS: Men wear women's clothes for a variety of reasons. For some it's a sexual fetish; others do it because they say it calms them and relieves stress. It isn't "wrong," but it is different. Some wives go along with it and help their husbands to cross-dress. Others have a difficult time adjusting to it.
This is not something that should be discussed with your husband's superiors. More important than talking to anybody right now is for you to learn all you can about transvestism and cross-dressing.
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How about we fucking call the police and start asking the altar boys if this faggot has ever molested them? Jesus H christ you would think people have a shred bit more common sense than this. What the hell is wrong with the world where you cannot see the problem with this???? IT GODAMNED DOESNT TAKE A GENIUS TO FIGURE OUT WHERE THIS ONE GOES NEXT?!!
All i have to say is Oh.. my ... fucking... god....
Thankfully its not NEEDS TO KNOW IN MINNEAPOLIS i guess. "What possibly could be the problem with a male wearing womans clothing?" You know people like to throw this one around too and constantly banter on and on about how its a lifestyle choice and there is nothing wrong with it. The bitch wearing the dress has a dick. To me there is something inherntly wrong with that. I guesse im the one who is wrong for noticing the obvious. It may be that it takes a literary genius of the greatest proportions to write a rant about how its ok to be a he-she and how they dont need to pay attenting to the "mocking" by the "racists idiot stupid red necks" so they can get on their little superiority trip and use thier "intelligence" as the defining factor of that argument. Lets just forget that issue about the schlong dangeling out from under the mini skirt.
Yeah there exaclty is what i mean by educated idiots. You can have 200,000 years of college and through some fluke of creation happen to miss the little fact that a woman is not supposed to have a dick.
Wtf is wrong with the world?
I thought thier hear to help people not fawk them up in the head OMG!!!!!!
I new you were kidding... so was i.....?
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